Second

It seems that parents are unable to raise more than one child. If they have a second one, they imagine everything goes by itself, and if it doesn't, they will learn from their older sibling. Convenient.
A quiet girl who eats and sleeps, has no health problems, who won't bother. A girl with no needs and no pride. Also, a girl who doesn't feel much, who knows you're gonna tie the scarf around her neck before she goes out in the cold and she thinks that she would never be capable of doing something so wonderful by herself.
On the other hand, they think you're quite dumb so they always feel the need to tell you "say hello" 30 seconds before you meet a neighbor, cause if you don't you're gonna make you mom look bad. She wouldn't understand you're not the most sociable person in the world.